Ladies I Need Your Input

Ok so bear with me as I ramble some in this video but ladies please watch this entire video and give tips because I could use them right now!!!!!

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4 thoughts on “Ladies I Need Your Input”

  1. Hi, CJ. I don’t know you that well despite the fact we went to high school together, but I just thought I’d put in my two cents.

    You asked why a woman would look for a “paycheck” instead of a relationship. My answer is that everyone has a priorities. Its the same reason that some men have trophy wives, or have the nice woman that they married because she would run a household well and be a good mother and then he goes on to have a mistress (or 2 or 3 or 4…) on the side. Unfortunately for you, it sounds like you found a girl who wants a particular lifestyle,and you fit the bill.

    I would also say that its not so much what women are looking for that you need to worry about, but what you’re looking for in a woman. Stop dating these “girls” and look for a woman. Date a woman that has her life together, has goals that match yours, and her priorities match yours. It sounds like you have a full and busy life– find a woman that is independent and not threatened by that schedule. While I get that a lot of guys want to “take care of” their partner, wouldn’t it be better to have a woman that wants you, but doesn’t need you to take care of her?

    Just my opinion… =)

  2. cj, you’re video was awesome and kept me interested. you seem like a sweet, honest, sincere, well spoken man. i am positive that there is a woman just like u out there somewhere wondering why her relationships fail also.noone is perfect but we all have to find our way through life. you will break hearts as well as get yourS broken. do u stop and think that maybe it isnt u, thats its them. i feel in order to find true love you have to put your heart out there knowing it may get broken. you seem like an awesome guy and im sure your princess is waiting! STAY BOOSTED CJ!!

  3. CJ, I have known you for several years now and I have seen you go through two break-ups. I know you love kids…I’ve seen it. I know you are hurting and I know you can make it through this. You are stronger than you THINK you are right now. Now, as for the questions…

    I honestly think that there are those “ladies” out in this world just after the “paycheck” only. The reason I say this is because….well just look around! Girl gets with guy who has money, girl meets another guy with more money, first guy gets dumped. I think its all in their logic. Well this guy has more money so he’ll give me more or he’ll buy me more. I don’t know. I don’t understand it.

    Then there are the ladies like me. Don’t get me wrong, money is a necessity in life but it’s not EVERYTHING. I, myself, am more into personality, morals, goals, etc. Some of us actually want the relationship and NOT the “paycheck” from a guy.

    SO, my point being. You have to find the one that’s right for you. You have to give yourself the chance TO find that soul mate that you search for. Don’t give up on looking. You never know, they could be in the last place you expected. Sometimes, you just have to open your eyes and take a look around yourself, see what you have kept yourself from seeing.

    CJ, you are a really sweet, loving, caring guy. A lady would be lucky to have you. Just don’t let the wrong ones get the best of you. You deserve the absolute best, your equal, your friend, and soul mate. DO NOT GIVE UP DOLL!

    Oh and STAY BOOSTED!

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